From the moment two people meet, they’re sizing each other up, looking for signs of qualities like honesty, intelligence, and altruism.Whether it’s a date or a job interview, the small stuff matters — from the firmness of your handshake to how often you check your phone.
We checked out the Quora thread, “What are the really small things that tell a lot about a person’s psychology and personality?,” and highlighted some of the most common behaviors people use to judge you.
1. Your handshake
Several Quora users admitted they judge people based on their handshake.
“Strong handshakes usually reflect a strong and confident character, whereas weak handshakes usually indicate a lack of confidence and are almost always a characteristic of people who would look for an easy way to do things,” writes Julian Parge.
Research backs up the idea that your handshake can reveal certain aspects of your personality: One study found that people with firm handshakes were more likely to be extroverted and emotionally expressive and less likely to be shy and neurotic.
2. Whether you show up on time
Late for a very important date?
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