28 Feb Add one great habit to change your life.
This question originally appeared on Quora: What Can People Start Doing Now That Will Help Them A Lot In About Five Years? Answer by David Cannon, Founder, Solutionbank.org.
There’s already a lot out there, but I couldn’t resist writing a note to my 23-year-old self:
- If you do anything, do this first one: learn how to work hard and stick with something. Learn how to turn off Facebook and control your addiction to social media. You’ll instantly be ahead of the majority of your generation.
- Video games are a time-suck. If you can play for an hour and say “That was fun, let’s do something else” then you’re ok. Otherwise, just get rid of them.
- Pick up an athletic hobby that you can do through the years, or your sedentary academic lifestyle will do horrible things to your posture, back, and gut.
- Learn how to deal with interpersonal conflicts. Read
- Learn as much programming as you can. It’s never a bad idea to learn a programming language (unless that language is COBOL—just kidding, you can even make money coding in COBOL). I’ve found is worth the investment.
- Learn how to talk on the phone with people you don’t know. It still terrifies most people. Get a phone sales job and quit after a few weeks.
- Start some kind of little side venture to learn entrepreneurial principles. Start a window washing business, buy and sell stuff on Craigslist, do anything. You might need it if you’re in between jobs.
- Take a course on statistics and how they’re misused, specifically how faulty causal arguments are made. It will change the way you approach almost any discussion, quantitative or not. (Read )
- Always have a private place where you can talk out loud to God every day. Even if you’re not religious or don’t believe in God. Talk out loud to the universe. Sort out your thoughts, verbalize them, and then write down what comes to mind. Something wiser than you is listening and responding, even if it’s just another side of you.
- Use to track your expenses. Make a budget and learn how to stick to it. Learn to live lean now while you can so you won’t be forced to later on.
- Learn a foreign language, but only if you anticipate using it. Sure, there are side benefits, but you’ll forget it.
- Learn how to network. Read Never Eat Alone. Hint: it’s about doing things for other people.